by: Staci Stallings
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TO PROTECT & SERVE
“Romance of the purest and sweetest kind…”
Houston firefighter, Jeff Taylor is a fireman’s fireman. He’s not afraid of anything, and no situation is too dangerous to keep him on the sideline if lives are at stake.
Lisa Matheson runs a semi-successful ad agency that’s on the brink of falling apart. Her employees are incompetent and her schedule has become exhausting. When she takes on a client with a brilliant idea for a big conference, she thinks that maybe, finally this is her lucky break. However, the fire station wasn’t what she had in mind for finding conference speakers. When she falls for a handsome but shy firefighter, it’s possible that life might just be going her way for a change. The only problem is she can’t quite get control Jeff and the death wish he seems to have…
“Staci Stalling is like an artist, and she really paints a beautiful picture. There are few books that can glue me to my seat and with every Staci Stallings’ book, I am glued. In ‘To Protect and Serve,’ you will smile with them, get angry with them, and you’ll also cry when the characters are hurting. In this novel, Staci shows that love does not only encompass emotion, but to love, we need to trust, to accept and in some instances, surrender.”
–Amazon Reviewer, Rhonda Aberdeen
by: Staci Stallings
Not long ago we spoke about change and how others will try to block your change. This is true of others who you are working with as a Sower of God’s Seed as well.
Change is difficult. It takes time. It takes work.
Mostly it takes willingness.
If you are not willing to change, you won’t.
In fact, I think that is the biggest sticking point many people have with God. They think that if God is God and can do anything, then why doesn’t He just change things–to be better to be more peaceful. After all, He’s God. What’s He waiting for?
Well, I will tell you… He’s waiting for us to be willing.
Have you ever been so angry with someone that you weren’t willing to forgive? Maybe you weren’t even willing to entertain the thought of forgiving the other person. You didn’t think they deserved it. You thought that you deserved to be angry.
That’s okay.
God will wait.
And you as a sower will have to learn to wait as well.
No matter how much you may want another person to change, only they can decide when that will happen. You can pray. You can gently point the right direction, but you cannot force them to change. That is their decision alone.
And oh, is that hard!
Because you and I think if they would just X… forgive, let it go, work harder, be kinder… whatever… then things would be better.
Often when you are working with someone, change is going to look VERY slow and sometimes non-existent. But that’s where you have to get a different perspective, a God perspective. From God’s perspective, He has eternity to work on your heart and mine and theirs. He’s a patient God, a loving God who will never force you or them to be anything you or they are not ready to be.
The “trick” is for YOU to BE (remember that from last time?). Be peace even when they are not peaceful. Be kind even when they are not. Be generous even when they are not. Meet them all the way over and over again until they are willing to take a step toward you.
Oh, this is hard. I’m not going to lie to you. Change is hard. Those rocks are heavy. The pavement is hard. The thistles and weeds have thorns and you are going to get hurt. I can almost guarantee it. But you are no longer looking to the world or to others for your peace. You are now looking only at God. And He will teach you how, how to be peaceful in the midst of turmoil, how to be merciful in the face of “they don’t deserve that,” how to love unconditionally… in all circumstances… no matter what. He’s teaching YOU as much as He’s teaching THEM.
Know that going in, and determine that this soul is worth your effort, your patience, your time, your belief in them… because Jesus did all of that for you… and more. In fact, that’s ultimately what Jesus did for us. He showed us how to be a Sower of God Seeds into souls by being the First Sower. His love changed things–in personal lives and in the world. It still does in the hands of Sowers who know that change is not easy but it’s always worth it.
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August 16
Staci’s “Amazing!” novel:
To Protect & Serve
“Reading To Protect & Serve, I’m taken away to another world, a world I want to be a part of and never leave. Staci’s characters are real with real everyday problems. I love that.
Oh, and the firemen in this story, they’re smokin’ hot! Especially the hero!”
–Debra, Amazon Reviewer
When control freak Lisa Matheson falls for handsome but shy firefighter, Jeff Taylor, it’s possible that life might just be going her way for a change. The only problem is she can’t control Jeff or the death wish he seems to have…
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Although tomorrow is the official release of my new book “To Protect & Serve,” I’m giving you, my loyal readers a sneak peek…
Houston firefighter, Jeff Taylor is a fireman’s fireman. No situation is too dangerous to keep him sidelined if lives are on the line. However, when control freak Lisa Matheson falls for him, she quickly realizes she can’t control Jeff or the death wish he seems to have…
To save others’ lives, they will risk their own
“To Protect and Serve will hold you prisoner to its pages until the final one is turned. Prepare to cry, laugh, wish, love and maybe even cry again as you become enveloped in the hopes and feelings of Lisa and Jeff.”
-Cindy Reiger
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by: Staci Stallings
Maybe you know me and know this already about me. Maybe you have guessed it about me in reading my posts. But I’ll let you in on a little secret: I like control. I like to know where I am. I like to know where I’m going and how I’m getting there.
It’s just how I was wired, I suppose.
Sometimes my plans get bigger than my ability to pull them off, but most of the time I’m working toward something with a definite plan in mind and a map of how to get there.
That’s definitely true with the marketing of my writing. With the writing itself, I’ve learned to turn that little slave-driver in me off. But when I’m marketing, sometimes it’s a whole different story.
I think that’s why God throws little and sometimes BIG hitches in my plans. To remind me, once again, that I’m not the one in charge and that we will go in His direction and at His pace. It’s humbling to say the least.
And so it was Feb. 1, 2012. I had been planning for that day for several weeks. It was the first day my book, “Coming Undone” would be on Free Kindle, and I had a lot of things set up–articles on other sites, Facebook pages to contact, tweets for Twitter all ready to go. I was SET I tell you… Ready, Set, GO!
I even had a spreadsheet set up so I could track the downloads and learn nuggets to help me better do this next time.
Feb. 1 started, and I noticed something strange on the Amazon reporting site almost immediately–my rank on the page was going down, but I wasn’t adding any sales. In fact, it hit 89 downloads and stopped completely!
I was patient for as long as possible and then I emailed my writer’s group to ask if anyone else was experiencing this. Sure enough, it was an everyone problem. One of the guys wrote in, “Great! Staci Stallings just broke Amazon!”
HAHA! I needed that laugh.
As the day progressed, my book’s rank kept climbing into the #200’s and then the #100’s. The problem was, half the time, I could no longer even see my rank. The other writers were updating me, but my rank (what I could see) was all over the place. It would be in the 500’s and then 100’s then the 200’s then the 100’s again. I had watched these things for a long time, and I had never seen this.
As the day wore on, I was getting more and more irritable because I had no clue what was going on! I couldn’t see my sales numbers and my ranks were not consistent or logical. And then I got an email from a friend, “YAY! You’re number 54!” Which meant I had broken into the Top 100 Free Kindles on Amazon!
I was jazzed, but it sure would have been nice to see it.
Frustrated, I opened a book of Bible sayings and came across the one for Feb. 1, which was tied to the verse: We walk by faith, not by sight. Ah-ha! Finally I understood.
Finally after all day, my spirit relaxed. Here was the message God had wanted to give me all along. “Staci, you’re gonna have to trust me even if you can’t see what’s going on.”
Someone sent me a link to the Top 100 page, and suddenly I got a glimpse of what was going on. The rest of the evening and into the next morning we watched in the Top 100 as my book climbed ever higher until it had reached #11 in Free Kindle Store. Two days later it was climbing the Paid side, finally ending its ascent at #98 in all of Amazon, and #1 in Religious Fiction and in Religion & Inspirational.
It was a wild ride.
And it was a whole week before I got a real understanding of just how many downloads that represents.
Let me tell you, walking by faith is not easy for a control freak. I’m just glad God was kind enough to give me the lesson in a way that I can’t miss it. That sure did help!
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